add space between first item and second item of a list container

Guys, I have this list. I would like to add space between the first item and the rest of the list.

Right now it's like this: - - - - (1 2 3 4 5 ...)

I want: -       - - - - - - (1       2 3 4 5 ...)

AND: I don't want the focused item to move to the place of the first item. Hence a list instead of a fixedlist.

Is that possible?

xml:
    <control type="list" id="52">

        <left>594</left>

        <top>-200</top>

        <orientation>vertical</orientation>

        <pagecontrol>531</pagecontrol>

        <movement>11</movement>

        <focusposition>10</focusposition>

        <focusedlayout height="75">

            <control type="image">

                <left>0</left>

                <right>0</right>

                <texture colordiffuse="button_focus">lists/focus.png</texture>

                <visible>Control.HasFocus(52)</visible>

            </control>

            <control type="image">

                <left>35</left>

                <centertop>50%</centertop>

                <width>32</width>

                <height>32</height>

                <texture>$VAR[ListWatchedIconVar]</texture>

            </control>

            <control type="label">

                <left>105</left>

                <top>0</top>

                <bottom>0</bottom>

                <right>40</right>

                <aligny>center</aligny>

                <scroll>true</scroll>

                <label>$VAR[ListLabelVar]</label>

                <shadowcolor>text_shadow</shadowcolor>

            </control>

        </focusedlayout>

        <itemlayout height="75">

            <control type="image">

                <left>35</left>

                <centertop>50%</centertop>

                <width>32</width>

                <height>32</height>

                <texture colordiffuse="grey">$VAR[ListWatchedIconVar]</texture>

            </control>

            <control type="label">

                <left>105</left>

                <top>0</top>

                <bottom>0</bottom>

                <right>40</right>

                <aligny>center</aligny>

                <label>$VAR[ListLabelVar]</label>

                <shadowcolor>text_shadow</shadowcolor>

            </control>

        </itemlayout>

    </control>